Approaching women is not that tough as you think.
You just
need confidence
and should
know to
use the
right words.
Here are
a few things
you should
know before
approaching
the girl
you just
met and
you are
attracted
to.
1.
The
first most
important
thing is
to take
it easy.
If you get
all jittery
and scared
and think
that if
you don't
get this
girl, it
is going
to be the
end of your
life, then
you will
never really
get to know
her. So
be cool
and don't
overstep
your bounds.
If you succeed,
its great
and if not
then move
on. Don't
care about
the outcome
so much
that it
will make
you nervous
and you
will spoil
every chance
that you
ever had.
2.
Be
confident.
People show
confidence
(or lack
of it) in
a thousand
small ways;
your posture,
the way
you talk,
a lack of
waiver in
your voice,
eye contact,
body position,
placement
of the hands,
etc., etc.
All of these
are critical
and create
an impression.
Your impression
should always
be one of
confidence.
3.
Smile. This
is the best
part. Your
smile can
mean a lot.
Smiles can
easily look
like nervousness.
Therefore
you need
to know
how good
your smile
is. You
should practice
this in
front of
the mirror
until you
feel comfortable
with it
and until
it looks
natural.
4.
Take the
conversation
somewhere.
Pickup lines
are no good
and will
take you
nowhere.
Your conversation
should be
intelligent
and meaningful.
That doesn't
mean that
you start
discussing
politics
or football
with her.
You're trying
to get to
know the
woman in
the quickest,
most direct
way possible.
Thus, get
her talking
about herself!
Use this
as a discovery
of both
who she
is, and
what you
need to
do to move
the conversation
on.
5.
Listen to
her. This
is an important
part of
the conversation.
Just don't
keep talking
on and on.
You need
to listen
to what
she says
and focus
on her.
Look into
her eyes.
6.
Close.
You have
to ask for
what you
want. Don't
wait for
her to do
the thing
for you.
Far too
many men
expect the
woman to
close for
them; waiting
for her
to give
you her
number.
Instead,
you need
to be the
one to ask
for it.
Then, when
you do,
be direct,
calm, confident,
and don't
ask her
- tell her.
Say something
like, "Here,
write your
home phone
number down
on this
paper and
I'll call
you sometime
to continue
this conversation."
7. Leave! You always want to be the one to end the
conversation.
Don't over-stay
your welcome.
Close, and
make your
exit.
