Some
German wedding
customs
are similar
to ours
in the United
States,
such as
the vehicle
procession
following
the wedding
where vehicles
honk their
horns to
wish the
couple a
happy future.
Other traditions
are unique
to German
culture.
In Germany,
the bride
and groom
preparing
for marriage
are in for
a real treat
because
their nuptials
will be
lasting
not one,
but three
days!
Thursday
kicks off
the nuptials
when the
couple gathers
with friends
and family
for the
civil ceremony.
On friday,
the real
fun begins
as the couple
is visited
for the
"Polterabend",
or wedding-eve
party, by
friends
and neighbors.
The celebration
entails
the smashing
of plates
and other
breakables
as a sign
of good
luck. It
is believed
that by
doing so,
the bride
and groom
will abstain
from breaking
any household
after they
are married.
It is noted
that the
bride and
groom must
also clean
up the mess.
Saturday's
entertainment
includes
the actual
religious
wedding
ceremony,
wherein
the couple
is actually
united in
marriage.
However,
before the
bride and
groom may
leave the
celebration,
the guests
hold them
hostage.
The payment
to be released
is a promise
by the groom
of a party
or money.
Other customs
include
making chaos
for the
bride and
groom on
their first
night as
a married
couple.
Friends
play the
wedding
ceremony
joke of
taking apart
the couple's
bed. Log
sawing is
also a custom
in some
German villages
to test
the new
marriage
relationship.
After the
wedding,
a log is
positioned
between
two sawhorses.
The bride
and groom
together
must saw
the log.
Supposedly,
this is
an indication
of how the
couple will
handle joint
chores throughout
their married
lives. Also,
interestedly
enough,
Germans
wear their
matching
wedding
bands on
their right
hands. As
with any
country,
Germany
has its
share of
interesting
marriage
rituals.